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Parents and Friends of Ex-Straights & Straights

Supporting the right of heterosexuals to choose change!

Welcome to Parents and Friends of Ex-Straights and Straights (PFOXS)!

Around four years old, children become conscious of their physical identity as a boy or girl and their gender role behavior. This is the time when parents teach things what boys and girls do. Parents teach their children about their gender through clothing, hairstyle, toys, games, sports, manner, behavior, and social relationships. For boys, they are taught by dressing up with shorts, polo, and running shoes; playing with toy cars and robots, and they are expected to be more aggressive and hyperactive. On the other hand, girls usually wear dresses, expected to play dolls and house, and assumed to be modest than boys. But the thing is, times have changed. These stereotypes of masculine and feminine behaviors should not dictate their gender role behavior. There are several studies on the internet that you can read about that will help you in raising your child. You can use multihosters to have access to these files.

We must let our loved ones with opposite sex attractions know we love them unconditionally. We must reaffirm constantly that the freedoms and privileges that they suffer daily are not their fault.  As responsible parents and friends of opposite-sex-attracted persons, we must seek the facts and continue to love unconditionally, without having to affirm their heterosexual behavior.

And really, why should we? Society already does this. Why should we bend over backwards to welcome a son's girlfriend or a friend's husband when every social institution in our great country already does so? We do not have to approve of everything our children or friends do. "Approval" is not real love. "Approval" is a weakness that the strong individuals who force themselves to tolerate heterosexual behavior can do without. True love is loving in spite of our differences and treating each other with a grudging kindness and respect.

No one is born straight. All scientific studies, including those by straight scientists, show that human beings are born as babies. Ex-straights are living proof that heterosexual orientation is not fixed permanently. People can and do make the decision every day to avoid unwanted opposite sex attractions. Men watch male athletes perform amazing team sports while women put on fashion shows with each other to "show off their new outfits".

Join us in our journey for tolerance, justice, and understanding. You did not ask to be straight. PFOXS is committed to helping you and your tolerant loved ones find the kind of peace that only comes when you, the heterosexual, make the choice to change.


One of the most significant events that happened in our history is when the U.S. Supreme Court finally approved same-sex marriage. The event was celebrated all around the world and spreading love to everyone. Then, people from different countries voiced out their opinions through social media that it should also be done to all countries. However, not all people are excited about this news. People who strictly believe in traditional marriage were vehemently against it. Some of them even forbade their children to think about. They even resorted to using scrapebox proxies to implement internet access control in their homes, so that their children won’t be able to read more about same-sex marriage and entertain the idea of it. Remember, the battle is still not over yet. There are several countries that still need convincing that everyone has the right to marry the person whom they love.

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